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How can I ask for consent without making things awkward?

Asking for consent does not have to be awkward. In fact, it can make both people feel comfortable, safe and respected. Consent can be a natural part of a conversation.

You can ask questions such as “Do you want to do this?”, “Is this okay?”, “Does this feel good?” or “Would you like me to keep going?”. Checking in regularly shows respect and helps make sure everyone is comfortable. Consent is not a one-time question, it should continue throughout sexual activity.

Visit the Consent and Relationships page on the hub to learn more.

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