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How do I get consent?

The best way to get consent is to ask. You could ask questions like:

  • Can I touch you here?
  • Do you feel comfortable with this?
  • Do you like that?
  • Do you want to stop?

It is also important to pay attention to body language. If someone seems uncomfortable, pulls away, goes stiff, or becomes quiet, stop and checkin with them. If you are not sure someone is consenting, ask.

Visit the Consent and Relationships page on the hub to learn more.

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I’ll aim to get back in touch within 24 hours unless it’s the weekend and then I’ll be back in contact Monday (or the day after if it’s a public holiday).

You can also give me a call on 1800 451 624

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